- Backbiting : speaking bad but the truth about somebody who is absent to another party
- Slandering : speaking untruthfully about somebody
- Malicious gossipping : batu api, evil intentions, talking about somebody's private affair
- Always finding people's fault
- Bila hati sudah gelap, it is difficult for the Quran to penetrate into our hearts.
Lying is only necessary in 3 situations:
- Tipu untuk menjaga hati
- Untuk reconcile 2 parties
- Warfare (setup strategies).
Ways of bending our ego
- Constantly check our intentions
- Make use of the knowledge we gained